Wednesday, October 31, 2007

Best Halloween Costume



OK, if you know me very well, you know that I have not missed a Halloween, ever. So, you can imagine how many different costumes I have seen over the years.

This year, for most realistic costume, my brother Jimmy (Homer, in more ways than one) gets the award!

Happy Halloween!

Sunday, October 28, 2007

Lunch at Butler

It has been a while since I have been to General Butler State Park for lunch. Today I decided that is where I wanted to go.

As we drove for less than an hour to get there, I remembered the other times that I had been there.

Immediately, I fondly remembered when the whole family, Jimmy and his kids, my children, and even my mom drove to Carrollton for lunch. Amy, just a teenager, being there. Katie and Philip were toddlers and behaved so well in the lodge. I can only smile to remember that happy day.

I can also remember going there with Jimmy and McGehee so many years ago. They were both in law school at Chase at that time. I remember watching in wonder as they had a bet who could eat the most fried chicken from the buffet. I would have bet on Jimmy, being that he is a man that really enjoys his food. Also, I had to consider that McGehee was a tall, slender fellow that really didn't care much about food, so I couldn't see him eating more than 3-4 pieces, tops.

To my surprise it was McGehee that had Jimmy beaten by two chicken pieces, with a grand total of 19, compared to Jimmy's mere 17 pieces of chicken. I shake my head every time I remember those two guys eating all that chicken!

As for today, we were finally there. We sat down to the buffet, not only to eat and enjoy each other's company, but to perhaps make another memory at the General Butler State Park.


Tuesday, October 16, 2007

Looking Back

This entry will take a different turn from my usual format.

My daughter asked me what will happen to the archived columns of the Kentucky Post newspaper once they shut their doors this December. It was a good question, and I am not sure exactly what they plan to do. So, I thought I would post on my blog one of our favorite columns. We both smile to remember back to that time when our dear friend, Ken Fields, was still with us. He was always on board with us, no matter what we wanted to do. Just like in this column written by our friend, David Wecker...

Clooney encounters of the close kind


I'm reminded once again that no matter how diligently I apply myself to climbing the ladder of success, whenever I look up, I'll be looking at the seat of some Clooney's pants.

Let me elaborate. The other morning, I had breakfast with Ruthie Johnson and her daughter, Amy Haller, of south Newport. I've known Ruthie for a few years. Amy, I just met.

Ruthie's in her mid-40s and teaches computer classes for Newport High. Amy's 28 and delivers The Kentucky Post to subscribers in Campbell County. Also, Amy looks very much like Meg Ryan with freckles. The fact is, she lights up rooms.

Ruthie and Amy are devoted Clooneyphiles. Ruthie says it started when she was a little girl. She remembers hearing Rosemary's songs while her mom was hanging laundry on the clothesline. As a former employee of the Beverly Hills Supper Club, she said it was somehow easier hearing about the fire from Nick on Channel 12.

One way or another, Nick was always on the TV in her living room or on the radio in her car, sharing some bit of information in that warm, comfortable way he has. Not just with her, of course — but with her nonetheless. She says it's like hearing from a friend.

The feeling rubbed off on Amy and transferred itself to George. Just as her mother followed Nick's career, Amy watched George graduate from "The Facts of Life" to "Roseanne" to "ER" and the big screen.

Anyway, Ruthie and Amy have had several Clooney encounters in recent months:

In June, after the gala celebrating Nick's 50 years in broadcasting, Ruthie and Amy waited outside the back door at Music Hall until 3 a.m. for a glimpse of a Clooney.

When George emerged, Amy asked her mom for a scrap of paper so she could collect an autograph. Ruthie handed her a tattered ATM envelope. It was all she had.

"I apologized for the crummy piece of paper, and George said, `Yeah, it was pretty crummy.' And he laughed," Amy says. "He couldn't have been nicer."

In July, the girls took Ruthie's '97 red Dodge Caravan to Rosemary's funeral. They were half an hour late, parking spots were scarce and yellow tape was everywhere.

"So we turned down an alley and saw a spot," Ruthie says.

"I realized, `Omigosh, we're behind the church.' On the other hand, it was half an hour into the service, so I seriously doubted it was being held for anyone — "

They stood in the back of the church. They cried when Nick got up to speak. And as Ruthie and Amy were leaving the church, the paparazzi descended on them. A woman in the crowd pointed at Amy and ID'd her as George's new girlfriend.

As Ruthie backed the Caravan into the alley, she discovered to her horror it was the third vehicle in the procession. Amy slunk in the passenger's seat, mortified. At the cemetery, men in suits opened the van doors and escorted them to the grave site.

Amy was scared to death she would be arrested. She remembers feeling guilty when people she didn't know began consoling her. She also remembers George having really nice sunglasses and looking really great. For her part, Ruthie concentrated on blending in.

A few weeks ago, Ruthie and Amy persuaded Ken Fields, a long-time Newport school board member and basically my second dad, to accompany them to the fourth annual Rosemary Clooney Festival in Maysville.

"I went along to give them some legitimacy," he said.

The number on their table was 102, which Ken said put them three blocks from the stage, almost to the fence. But it didn't matter to Ruthie and Amy because they weren't in their seats more than a few minutes.

I sprinkled more hot sauce on my fried eggs as Ruthie and Amy took turns telling me what their evening was like. They told me about how friendly and gracious and charming everyone in the family was, about how they took time to talk to anyone who wanted to talk and about how it really was like a great big family gathering and they were part of it.

Then they showed me the photos. There's Amy and Nina, Nick and Amy, Amy and Dante DiPaolo and there's the both of them with George. It would have been perfect, if only Amy hadn't blinked when the shutter snapped.

"I think they're starting to recognize us," Amy said.

The day after the festival, Ruthie and Amy stopped at Walgreen's in Newport and dropped the film off to be developed. They had an hour to kill before their photos would be ready. So they hopped into the Caravan. Without really thinking about it, they found themselves on the AA Highway, headed for Augusta, Ky.

That's the kind of night it was for them.

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By the way David, you still have our pictures!


Sunday, October 14, 2007

Urban Dog Sledding

What a beautiful day today. Katie, Rachel and I went for a ride this afternoon through the neighborhoods close to home. Lots of people where either working in their yards, tossing footballs or jogging down the sidewalks.

As we drove through the streets of Fort Thomas, out of nowhere, we all questioned at the same moment, “DID YOU SEE THAT?” I had to be sure that what I saw was exactly what they saw. I turned the car around and listened to the girls giggle as it was confirmed, we did see this.

There was a middle-aged man riding a bicycle. He resembled a Blues Brother, sporting the same type of hat and sunglasses. Now for the catch, he was not peddling his bike. No, he had four beautiful, blue-eyed Huskies doing that for him.

Please excuse us for laughing - this was the first time we had ever seen "Urban Dog Sledding!"


Saturday, October 13, 2007

My First Birthday Party


I know a woman should not tell her age, but for some reason this has never really bothered me. So, I will tell you about my 50th birthday.

A week ago Friday, two days before my “official” birthday, it started as just an ordinary day. I arrived at school a little early and began my normal routine. My principal acknowledged my birthday on the morning announcements, which made me smile. I had a couple “Happy Birthday” wishes but no hints of how the day would unfold.

By 3:00 I was ready to call it a day and start the weekend. A couple teacher friends at school asked me to join them at Starbuck’s to chat, as we have done several times before on other Fridays.

At 4:00 my cell phone rang and my daughter, Amy, asked me to come home because Grandma needed her medicine and was hungry. I left Starbuck’s and drove straight home.

When I pulled up the street I saw many of my favorite people walking out of my garage to wish me a Happy Birthday. This was a total surprise to me! I can't say how shaken and deeply moved I was. I had never had anyone celebrate my birthday with such a party as this! And, what a pleasure to have even more friends and relatives arrive throughout the day.

I cannot adequately thank all of my dear friends and family that made my day perfect.

Tricia and Amy, thank you for organizing and pulling off this wonderful surprise party! Kevin, the food was excellent, thanks for taking care of it! Thank you Jimmy for graciously providing the funds for my party. You guys from school and CO, I need to watch you all - you guys are too good (and sneaky) about keeping a secret from me! Thank you for sharing this day with me! Betsy, Mary Jo and Tami - thank you - you know you are like family to me. Mary, thank you for always being there for me - good times and the not-so-good times, you are my adopted sister. Al, my one soul mate, thank you for a shoulder to lean on and an ear to bend, but most of all, for a heart that has never stopped caring for the last 24 years. Susie, my dear friend of 44 years, you mean the world to me - I didn't want you and Mark to leave. To all of the members of my dear family - thank you for putting up with me - I love you with all of my heart.

Each and every one of you have all added so much joy to my life. Regardless of whether you have been with me for all of these eventful 50 years, or if only on part of this journey, know that all of you have played such a significant part of my life. You are my blessings.

Thank you all for the wonderful gifts, and a day that I will always treasure. Most importantly, thank you for your gift of love and friendship. May we all enjoy many more happy days together.

With Love,
Ruthie